Many people are lazy to read long messages really, or they are busy doing something else, for example, responding other correspondences on this site. But if the girl has a minimum interest on you or your message, she will read your letter probably. However, if even you are not very motivated when beginning a contact with anyone currently, what are you waiting to receive back?
So, my first advice to you: be more optimistic. You are so pessimistic now that you ever confessed to be bored, without inspiration and writing less and less to women here. I think that the first step is to change that situation in yourself.
Second advice: review your profile. Consider the comments about your page, analyze them and then edit it. For example, as said, avoid ambiguity or contradictory ideas there. If you want to include something unclear on your page, instead of contradictory things, put a little mystery about yourself, something that will attract attention or curiosity of the ladies. That will encourage them more to write to you.
After to improve your profile, analyze the ones of the women and learn more about their culture. That is the third advice. See which are the search criteria of the respective user, besides the personality, taste, goals, interests, preferences, hobby and other things of that member. After to do that, if you have interest on the person, you need to know the other part. But before, it is important to learn more about the culture and traditions where the girl lives.
The fourth advice is related to the message destined to someone. After to visualize the profile, use something in the info there to make a letter, anything being pleasent to be read. So, the woman will know that you viewed her page really and that you have real interest on to get acquaintance with her. Probably, she will notice that you created something specific to her, you did not send a random message to catch her or a general one made to be sent to several ladies. That may do the person to feel special and to increase the interest on starting a communication with you. Also, think what you learned about her country to avoid mistakes and missunderstandings. You have to utilize your knowledge to make better chances of contact. Finally, being long or short, the message should do the person want to write to you or even have good interest on you (communication, friendship, love, and so on). That is a challenge, but what was written here may help you.
There are other questions to be treated, but this comment would be long and maybe it would affect the reading of this text by some people. Ha, ha, ha! If you read this entire comment, congratulations!
I am not a specialist, but I hope I could help somehow.
I wish good luck to you!
So, my first advice to you: be more optimistic. You are so pessimistic now that you ever confessed to be bored, without inspiration and writing less and less to women here. I think that the first step is to change that situation in yourself.
Second advice: review your profile. Consider the comments about your page, analyze them and then edit it. For example, as said, avoid ambiguity or contradictory ideas there. If you want to include something unclear on your page, instead of contradictory things, put a little mystery about yourself, something that will attract attention or curiosity of the ladies. That will encourage them more to write to you.
After to improve your profile, analyze the ones of the women and learn more about their culture. That is the third advice. See which are the search criteria of the respective user, besides the personality, taste, goals, interests, preferences, hobby and other things of that member. After to do that, if you have interest on the person, you need to know the other part. But before, it is important to learn more about the culture and traditions where the girl lives.
The fourth advice is related to the message destined to someone. After to visualize the profile, use something in the info there to make a letter, anything being pleasent to be read. So, the woman will know that you viewed her page really and that you have real interest on to get acquaintance with her. Probably, she will notice that you created something specific to her, you did not send a random message to catch her or a general one made to be sent to several ladies. That may do the person to feel special and to increase the interest on starting a communication with you. Also, think what you learned about her country to avoid mistakes and missunderstandings. You have to utilize your knowledge to make better chances of contact. Finally, being long or short, the message should do the person want to write to you or even have good interest on you (communication, friendship, love, and so on). That is a challenge, but what was written here may help you.
There are other questions to be treated, but this comment would be long and maybe it would affect the reading of this text by some people. Ha, ha, ha! If you read this entire comment, congratulations!
I am not a specialist, but I hope I could help somehow.
I wish good luck to you!