Hi. Find your observation very interesting indeed. I also believe you found the main reason for why many western men is looking elsewhere for their "mate"  . Sure I also share the view the we all shall have the basic rights, work, laws, human and financial rights and so on. But if I would like to share my bedroom with a "man" I would do so. Fortunately I don't so I'm still looking and pleas be the way you are, be women and be proud that you are