Hi all. During the short time I've been on the site this is the third time this topic has come up and the outcome is about the same as previous threads. And I'm still surprised by the FSU women response, YOU GET OFFENDED ! If this is really the case I can really understand the FSU men not wanting anything to do with you women.
I'm European but I share the view with the Americans in this case. I've been corresponding with a woman for a while now and I'm not sure what to make of it. I ask here thousand things to get to know here to get some idea of who she is as person and not about how well she will perform in bed. So far she hasn't asked a single thing about me so what's the deal here?
Someone said "From the start all mans love by the eyes", true. We all do even women. I would even say that women do this more than men and the reason for this I simple. It's in our genes! The female looks for the strongest male to make sure that HER offspring will stand a chance for survivalel, it's just nature. I don't buy this argument, especial if you reached mid life. Sure if a woman or man is good looking it's a plus but the appearance is not static, it will change over time but the person won't and it's the person you will live with.
Anyway I'm still surprised about your response. Why not take the chance to tell us why you get offended or why you are so reluctant to speak about your emotions (I know it's not the perfect place to do it in public but it could stop a lot of misunderstandings), this type of response just add to the trophy wife myth. Is that what you want?