Hi Richard. It's a bit puzzling and makes you wondering what's really counts. So far I've bin put against the wall only once and I see nothing wrong with that. I think it's only natural that you want to know as much as possible so you can form your opinion about a person before you take the next step. A person who avoids the "interrogation" is in my experience/opinion "suspect", hides something. Sure we all have a skeleton in the closet but if you want a relation based on trust (witch I think most do) I think you should be as honest as you possible can. Again just my opinion