Vera is right about her assumption, most men are looking for younger, 10 -15 years.
Or like me, even younger, 20 -30 years.
I have a couple of friends, close to my age, dating in Ukraine now.
With very beautiful, highly educated women, 15+ younger.
I always had, from my youth, a lot of beautiful women, to chose from.
When I was 40 years old, and started thinking about marrying, children, and family.
It was difficult for me, to find, a 25 - 30 year old, beautiful, intelligent woman, without children, in my hometown.
This was, at the beginning of Internet, in the years from 1995 - 2000.
No dating sites, at that time, like we have today. But I started to look, in other countries, also Eastern Europe.
From 97 to 99, I communicated by mail, with several young, mid twenties women, from St. Petersburg.
I travelled to meet with them, sometimes driving my own car, or by air. It was a great learning experience.
Later I drove farther, Moscow, Ryazan ++. Some women, I invited for vacations, or for living with me, for a couple of weeks or so.
Then I discovered Ukraine.
One smart entrepreneurial young woman, named Anna, posted photos and info, on the Internet, of the most beautiful women, at her university.
I invited, her friend Lena, she was 23, I was 45, for a weeks vacation, together with me, in the Norwegian mountains, springtime 2000.
We married a few weeks later, in Ukraine. Got twin sons, in 2003, and later divorced, in 2013.
Boys stayed with me in weekdays, and with her in weekends. She wanted, to continue her successful career.
When looking for a new wife, there was no doubt, it had to be Ukraine.
After 13 years of driving, to almost every region of Ukraine, I knew the country, like my own.
Took me one year, to find her, writing with hundreds of women, meeting with more than 30, living for a week or longer, together with 5.
More than 40.000 km / 25.000 miles, of driving, for dating inside Ukraine.
Lived together with Tanya, the woman I fell in love with, on and off, for almost a year in Ukraine, before we married, in January 2015.
Went on a family vacation, together with my sons and her daughter. She had her own business, and good economy.
Was difficult in the beginning, although she had a master degree, she knew almost no English.
I went bankrupt that year, after struggling for several years. So Tanya had to start working, almost the day she arrived here, without language.
Now she is 36, I am 63. She has built, a good business, after coming here. And has now received, her permanent residency permit.
For women like Vera, the situation has to be very difficult.
90% of men writing, will never travel. Half of the remaining, are travelling for sex only.
When visiting women, I sometimes sat reading, letters from western men, just unbelievable trash.
I understand very well, why a lot of women, give up, after a few months only.
It is difficult, even for a beautiful, slim young woman, to find a serious man in the west.
One mid-30 beauty, ok english, that I met with, had been on dating sites for 9 years, and had a few meetings, but without luck.
I have kept in touch, with those 5 other women, I met and lived together with in Ukraine.
All of them mid 30, beautiful, slim nice figure, highly educated and with good economy.
One had been searching for years, before I met, with her.
They all found a man, and got married, during 2015 - 16 -17, with men, close to their age, 5 - 10 older.
The one that married in 2015, is already divorced, and active here again.
You can find me and my wife, among happy couples here.
Sorry for all the commas, but it translates to Russian, much better, this way. So everyone, can read.
Or like me, even younger, 20 -30 years.
I have a couple of friends, close to my age, dating in Ukraine now.
With very beautiful, highly educated women, 15+ younger.
I always had, from my youth, a lot of beautiful women, to chose from.
When I was 40 years old, and started thinking about marrying, children, and family.
It was difficult for me, to find, a 25 - 30 year old, beautiful, intelligent woman, without children, in my hometown.
This was, at the beginning of Internet, in the years from 1995 - 2000.
No dating sites, at that time, like we have today. But I started to look, in other countries, also Eastern Europe.
From 97 to 99, I communicated by mail, with several young, mid twenties women, from St. Petersburg.
I travelled to meet with them, sometimes driving my own car, or by air. It was a great learning experience.
Later I drove farther, Moscow, Ryazan ++. Some women, I invited for vacations, or for living with me, for a couple of weeks or so.
Then I discovered Ukraine.
One smart entrepreneurial young woman, named Anna, posted photos and info, on the Internet, of the most beautiful women, at her university.
I invited, her friend Lena, she was 23, I was 45, for a weeks vacation, together with me, in the Norwegian mountains, springtime 2000.
We married a few weeks later, in Ukraine. Got twin sons, in 2003, and later divorced, in 2013.
Boys stayed with me in weekdays, and with her in weekends. She wanted, to continue her successful career.
When looking for a new wife, there was no doubt, it had to be Ukraine.
After 13 years of driving, to almost every region of Ukraine, I knew the country, like my own.
Took me one year, to find her, writing with hundreds of women, meeting with more than 30, living for a week or longer, together with 5.
More than 40.000 km / 25.000 miles, of driving, for dating inside Ukraine.
Lived together with Tanya, the woman I fell in love with, on and off, for almost a year in Ukraine, before we married, in January 2015.
Went on a family vacation, together with my sons and her daughter. She had her own business, and good economy.
Was difficult in the beginning, although she had a master degree, she knew almost no English.
I went bankrupt that year, after struggling for several years. So Tanya had to start working, almost the day she arrived here, without language.
Now she is 36, I am 63. She has built, a good business, after coming here. And has now received, her permanent residency permit.
For women like Vera, the situation has to be very difficult.
90% of men writing, will never travel. Half of the remaining, are travelling for sex only.
When visiting women, I sometimes sat reading, letters from western men, just unbelievable trash.
I understand very well, why a lot of women, give up, after a few months only.
It is difficult, even for a beautiful, slim young woman, to find a serious man in the west.
One mid-30 beauty, ok english, that I met with, had been on dating sites for 9 years, and had a few meetings, but without luck.
I have kept in touch, with those 5 other women, I met and lived together with in Ukraine.
All of them mid 30, beautiful, slim nice figure, highly educated and with good economy.
One had been searching for years, before I met, with her.
They all found a man, and got married, during 2015 - 16 -17, with men, close to their age, 5 - 10 older.
The one that married in 2015, is already divorced, and active here again.
You can find me and my wife, among happy couples here.
Sorry for all the commas, but it translates to Russian, much better, this way. So everyone, can read.