Dear Helga! Try to answer that question is really complicated, because many men use beautiful words to make you fall in love, and when they got you, they show you their real face! And you can try to know how they are from the very first message they send you (i mean to all ladies) and you have 2 options start talking with all them or refuse it!

After your words, i hope you don't mind, i have a question for you. Why are you in this site? To talkk with many ladies about life, or trying to find someone who will love you forever?

I'm here because my wife left me, and after some dating with women from Barcelona i have VERY bad results, and in a dating site i found a russian woman who lives in Barcelona and she was here in this site also, so i signed, and i'm REALLY HAPPY to do it because i have found many beautiful women who has written me and i know that one of those (specially one who i'm speaking now) or i hope it so, will become my next and  last wife! And with all other women who i speak i would like to be their friend forever! And i'll help them whenever they need in everythin i can and i know they will find their perfect half and i'll be happy for them and i'll give them my sincere congratulations!