Дорогоя Хельга! It seems that we think the same but we say it from different point of view.

I haven't understood it all, but a real gentleman will ALWAYS open the door to all women of any age, about my question and your answer i haven't said you have to cut any relation because you find a man, i tried to say that the main function from this site is to find our possible future couple, and if you find a man who make you take the decission of him or your friends, again i repeat it, he is not a gentleman! My friends or the people i know, after my wedding experience, are necessary because i was down and alone in the next days of separation.

And finally i think that men are women can be PERFECTLY FRIENDS, my best friend is a woman! She is 53 and she has helped and adviced me that if I love the woman i'm talking with, at the right time i have to say her my feelings and talk about OUR FUTURE! But not all wome will be friends, and my aid will be if they come to Spain, because i'll help them with language, finding them low rentals and saying where are their embassies or whatever they need except the money. To your question: а мне (с женщинами же!) нельзя? I have answered you before, your friends are yours only and you have to keep your contact always!

I'm a gentleman, so i won't ever say those words, but if i have said or written it and even if i have explained it in an improperly way. I'M SO SORRY!