Dear Julia,
I will tell you my opinion. As you write, when woman comes to any country and is alone home (difficult to find work), she feels lonely. You are right. I can imagion that. But When a woman comes to the Netherlands (my country), and her child is between 6 and older, the child MUST go to school. I can imagion that it is very difficult for a child to go to school in an other country then his/her motherland. So, when a man wants a woman without child, it could also be because of childhood can be sad when changing country. Even if mommy and her new friend are deeply in love, child can not always communicate with that "man". Maybe your childeren can and it is easier.
Also, when a man meets a woman he get feelings for, and she have a child, the man gets less attention. Because you are right, woman first thinks of the child (and I think it is good).
Ok, children can addept easy in other countries. I wouldn't mind meeting woman with child, but when I think about it, in the beginning when man and woman are busy building up a relationship (with big differences between 2 cultures!!!!!!!), it will be very difficult and very hard to build. First woman and man communicate by internet, where is the child in that moment?
When there is a meeting in real life, and the child is very young, how does the man talk with the child?? Ok, he could learn Russian.
I think it is not for every man the same. There are plus and minus sides on starting with (or without) children.
I think you should not worry, when a man doesn't want to continue with you because you have kids...... Well Dear Julia, He is not worth your love and you be too good for him. In the world there are many men looking for a sweet and wonderful Russian woman (or Ukraine). So, keep in mind, when he doesn't want to know you better because of having kids..... DUMP HIM!!!
Have a wonderful 2014 and I hope you find your second half.
Greetings Robert
I will tell you my opinion. As you write, when woman comes to any country and is alone home (difficult to find work), she feels lonely. You are right. I can imagion that. But When a woman comes to the Netherlands (my country), and her child is between 6 and older, the child MUST go to school. I can imagion that it is very difficult for a child to go to school in an other country then his/her motherland. So, when a man wants a woman without child, it could also be because of childhood can be sad when changing country. Even if mommy and her new friend are deeply in love, child can not always communicate with that "man". Maybe your childeren can and it is easier.
Also, when a man meets a woman he get feelings for, and she have a child, the man gets less attention. Because you are right, woman first thinks of the child (and I think it is good).
Ok, children can addept easy in other countries. I wouldn't mind meeting woman with child, but when I think about it, in the beginning when man and woman are busy building up a relationship (with big differences between 2 cultures!!!!!!!), it will be very difficult and very hard to build. First woman and man communicate by internet, where is the child in that moment?
When there is a meeting in real life, and the child is very young, how does the man talk with the child?? Ok, he could learn Russian.
I think it is not for every man the same. There are plus and minus sides on starting with (or without) children.
I think you should not worry, when a man doesn't want to continue with you because you have kids...... Well Dear Julia, He is not worth your love and you be too good for him. In the world there are many men looking for a sweet and wonderful Russian woman (or Ukraine). So, keep in mind, when he doesn't want to know you better because of having kids..... DUMP HIM!!!
Have a wonderful 2014 and I hope you find your second half.
Greetings Robert