Hello Ms. Katerina, thank you for your answer. Of course, what I meant was that the man must pay for the visit, from plane tickets to the visa, from the hotel they stay to the food they eat. This is what I think should happen, I'd pay for everything, even if the woman was self sufficient and offered to pay; since this is how I would want my relationship to be. If we meet and she has to go back for some time and needs money, that's also fine. I was just asking if this meant something entirely different, but I think I kind of got my answer. Thanks again for your detailed responses.