Tatiana thank you for your good advice, I intend to be very supportive and caring with a new Russian wife. I think it would be a good thing to learn the language together, with her teaching me Russian and me teaching English together.... it could be quality time fun ! I never feel the need to yell or get angry, training Horses demands patience quietness and love, so I'm well conditioned! I think being retired is also a great positive for us, I have all the time to give her, and she wouldn't ever have to work here.