Elen , You are absolutelly right about candy-shop  , through my life I got assure men are like big babes and very few of them could be honest first of all with themselves . For example  a man of 60 years old tells you ( and you are 20+ younger ) the age is only number .... ahha sure   but if its only a number why doesnt he want to get a woman 70+ years old? Go on man its only a number