Hi I know that I am not very popular here because of my country even with all the misconceptions and misguided thoughts that South Africa is the same as Africa. All I can say is that we as men has the same fears as you as woman, we have hear so many stories about scammers and women that are just after the money but we are looking for love to in that regards men and woman are the same we all are striving and hoping to find everlasting happiness and love. Each one has their own reasons why the want a certain woman or woman wants a certain man but it is not the Nationality or the country that will provide love and happiness it is a person. And life is a risk every day is one to cross a street is a risk, to climb steps are but that don’t prevent us from doing it does it? So is Love it is a risk to put your trust and faith in someone new and hope you don’t get hurt and sometimes we do get hurt and sometimes we find the happiness we seek but to get there we have to belief, trust and take a chance.