Yes i did we men sometimes do stupid things without thinking that there are softer, more sensitive creatures around us, we are brought up by not to show feelings, a man don’t cry, weakness are a sign of a coward all those stuff and in a way it makes you hard because a man must be hard sometimes to do what he has to especially like in war, and some jobs are hard work and then we forget about what and how to be around softer gender  . And on that note like they say there is nothing sharper than a women’s tongue. And damm can that cut deep and it don’t heal