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Salut Mat. I think you should examine the reasons why you don't trust women before you try to find someone online. Quite often these issues are reflections of your inner self such as your own values, insecurities, fears and jealousies. Quite often, they are not traits of the women you talk to, but your mind creates these illusions to protect your own ego. I fight with this issue myself - it's okay to think these things, but you must continually work on your self-awareness. Online dating is even more difficult to build trust and bonds, and there are many more reasons to surrender and feel betrayed, which ultimately makes you feel like the situation is more helpless with each try. It's certainly possible that you chase the same type of woman every time, which leads to the same result every time. You'll probably see this much more often if you only talk to young, attractive women who don't earn for themselves. It's also possible that the way you talk to women and treat women chases them away, but you may blame this on them only wanting money, because it's easier than accepting that you're doing something wrong. When meeting women from post-Soviet states, it's abundantly clear that there is a wealth disparity, but I can assure you that many here would rather find a good man than a rich man. Your words here aren't helping - you won't win anything by being hostile or belligerent. Just be kind, at all times, and maybe things will turn in your favor.