Well a I want to help you I started to study your profile to see what was wrong with it and I found many "wrongs". You mention that each of the party pays for himself/herself. This is mostly not acceptable for women here, and no matter if it is a poor woman or a business lady, she would want a man to take care of her and pay for her. If the woman is limited in means she won't write because of this issue, if she is a business lady such man will look too miserable in her eyes. Also women don't like long letters, as there are too many "writers" in internet, who like to write love letters or just any long letters for months, but never take any actions to meet someone. Also women here prefer not to fall in love with anyone before they meet this person in real life as it will lead to much suffering if she falls in love and a man will never arrive. Also women want to find a husband and not a sex-affair, that is why they find sex-discussions in Internet without any personal meeting and relationship in real going on unappropriate, they call such men "sex-tourists". I hope I helped. Also if you mention scammers it will scare all normal women away from you. Usually men-scammers write such phrases. Also she won't want to be always suspected in something and having to prove her innocence all the time. Also women here like gifts, it is part of the culture, most are not rich and would appreciate some financial help from her fiancee. If a woman is a business lady she will also consider a man who writes "all scammers go away" too miserable.