Well many women you mention got a husband while he was in a process of divorce. Not many women would want to date a man who is in the process of divorce, so there was no concurrence so to say. Many closed the eyes that man has already kids. So there was a lot of compromise. But all this won't help me. Many women go meet a person though they don't feel anything to him, but he looks suitable due to looks and position and they hope it will work out in the process. I would never do that. So there is nothing from somebody's experience that can be useful to me. I stick to my fantasies, but why that should be a problem as long as I don't do any harm to anybody.