I gave my honest opinion to the question that Svetlana asked only to find that I have either been mis-quouted or mis-understood by Larissa in my letters to her. I never ever said that I am not prepared to accept anybody into my home. I am more than willing for my lady to come and live here with me. I have a nice home ready for her if this what we both decide. What I also said was that I was not against moving to her country PROVIDED I could find work and SUPPORT HER myself. I accept that my knowledge of Russian language would make this difficult but I open minded enough to see what the options were. I not ask or seek a woman to support me. I don't need to. I support myself now and would my wife and family in the future as is the normal and correct thing to do. If I couldn't find suffiecient work to support my family then I wouldn't go. Why would I when I could do it quite happily and easily if she were to come here to me. It got nothing to do with space. I don't care what my lady lives in whether it be an apartment or country house or anything else. No do I care what work or salary she has, such things are of interest only not of future dependancy. I live in the countryside in the suburbs of Cardiff and I was concerned that Larissa and any lady from a big city would not like this enviroment but prefer the city life which is why I mentioned about my town. Indeed every lady I have wrote to or spoken to on this site I have made sure she understands with plenty of photos and letters what my home town is like so she can decide for herself. So I ask if I am to be ridiculed for giving my opinion that at least I am done so with the correct facts and not with complete untruths.