This is my perspective and I can't say it is that of other men, BUT, when I see a profile of a woman loaded with vacation pictures in beautiful parts of the world I immediately think, "professional dater or vacationer". Usually I just skip past those profiles. Reason being is that most men here are looking for THE one, not just somebody to go on vacation with. For me, I have lots of candidates here in the USA that I could go to Rome, Paris, or London with on a moments notice. That's not why I am here. I am here to find an intelligent, beautiful wife to share my life with.