Actually i have the opposote problem! (other sites in the past) Within just a few messages they want me to call them!!!! I find that completly unnerving, and they appear to have little patience or respect for that. I can go with emails and pictures for months, no problem, and I would be comfortable with that. As far as I am concerned we need time to build up a sound relationship and usually the cracks appear sooner rather than later. Slow down