The president of France, Emmanuel Macron, is 40 years old, end he is married to Brigitte Macron who is 65 years old.
And I don´t see anyone blaming her, for marrying a man 25 years younger than her.
Life is a great adventure to be in, and I really don´t think we can judge that hard, love do happen despite of age difference.
I have a story from real live, that are ongoing right now, and I am not making it up, even that it could seem so.
I know a women here in Denmark, that I used to work with, she married a man 23 years older than her, when she was in her late twenties.
At that time they married out of love, no question about it at all.
They got 2 children and have had quite a good marriage as far as I know.
Now she is in her early forties, she is doing competition horse riding, so she exercises a lot, and she is very fit and active.
He has gotten into a stage of his live, where he would rather eat a donut, than making love to his wife, and I can see that she has started to show interest for other men. It would not surprise me, if she changed her husband with a younger model soon, it would be very easy for her.
This does not take away the feelings they have had for each other, and it does not take away the good years they have had.
I am sure that she now regrets her choice back then, but back then it seemed right for her, and I would never judge her or her husband for their choices.
It would be easy now, to say to her "I told you so" but really, would it be fair?
But Hugo, my honest opinion is that you are searching the wrong place.
The goodhearted young women you will find in not rich countries, are looking for stability the rest of their life as well as love, otherwise why should they leave their country, family and friends behind.
And I agree with the critics, that you are seriously risking ending up in a relationship that from the womens point of view is only proforma, and it will not at all be the relationship you are dreamning of.
And then there will be hundreds of people on this forum waiting to say "I told you so"....
And I don´t see anyone blaming her, for marrying a man 25 years younger than her.
Life is a great adventure to be in, and I really don´t think we can judge that hard, love do happen despite of age difference.
I have a story from real live, that are ongoing right now, and I am not making it up, even that it could seem so.
I know a women here in Denmark, that I used to work with, she married a man 23 years older than her, when she was in her late twenties.
At that time they married out of love, no question about it at all.
They got 2 children and have had quite a good marriage as far as I know.
Now she is in her early forties, she is doing competition horse riding, so she exercises a lot, and she is very fit and active.
He has gotten into a stage of his live, where he would rather eat a donut, than making love to his wife, and I can see that she has started to show interest for other men. It would not surprise me, if she changed her husband with a younger model soon, it would be very easy for her.
This does not take away the feelings they have had for each other, and it does not take away the good years they have had.
I am sure that she now regrets her choice back then, but back then it seemed right for her, and I would never judge her or her husband for their choices.
It would be easy now, to say to her "I told you so" but really, would it be fair?
But Hugo, my honest opinion is that you are searching the wrong place.
The goodhearted young women you will find in not rich countries, are looking for stability the rest of their life as well as love, otherwise why should they leave their country, family and friends behind.
And I agree with the critics, that you are seriously risking ending up in a relationship that from the womens point of view is only proforma, and it will not at all be the relationship you are dreamning of.
And then there will be hundreds of people on this forum waiting to say "I told you so"....