Hi Vera

Yes, I agree fully with you - and off course there really are no words strong enough to express the disgust when someone takes advantage of a situation for his or her personal pleasure.

Personally I don´t like it, when I get letters of interest from girls in their early twenties, my own nephews are older than this, so it just seems wrong to me.

But my point is not to cast a judgement on people we don´t know, topic starter could actually meet up with a mentally mature, intelligent, young women, that makes a conscious choice based on her own goals and dreams.
In Denmark we see many intelligent young women, that are very goal orientated, and who knows exactly what they want. They often makes very conscious choices, when they are planning the life they want to have. I know it sounds a bit "cold" and sadly it is...

And the opposite could also happen, and that is just sick if it does, but we don´t know