It is brain wired in women to choose the partner who has the projection of what she feels comfortable and likeness as to have descendants for reproduction. The partner projection who care and protect her, odor and likeness is vital as to have healthy children. Strong figure partner is brain wired inner in the brain.

The fear of a possible candidate who looks like is what restrained women to give at first time, the women needs to verify if time and chances are the best, as reproduction eggs and time to rise are a limited resources.

That is why women are committed to join in social groups as to have a common protection against aggressive males.

When these relations fails, women are more selective and not easy to give.

The narcissism effect is natural in women, as there is a fight between them as to attract the best male (s).