Our Male and Female brains are wired since thousand years ago, it is in our biology and nobody can claim being different.

The capacity to provide, it is wired in our male brains. the male with more atributs, atracts females.

The females socialize between them as to support all against agresive male. It is also wired.
Besides material belongins, female then visualize about the mindset of the male ( as to not hit the female).