Hey gorgeous..
Good question... Let me first explain how western men see this. As we all know, situation in eastern countries (i come originally from eastern country so i know) is not good so many woman (from 20-65) wants to leave and find someone outside their countries searching for better life (thinking that is a heaven in other countries). Now, their priority is better life (money) and then if the love comes its a bonus! So, many of them leave, find a man with money (driving mercedes which doesn't really mean rich), get married, and after they get papers (permanent residency or citizenship) they leave the poor guy. Now, i have seen this happening, especially when you see 20-30 year old with a guy who is over 45!
So, girls/woman, it is not heaven where we are. We work very hard to earn what we have and we are NOT looking for someone with money but for someone to enjoy life with. And especially men over 45. So if you find one, as every relationship requires that we should be equal in every way, YOU need to contribute to make it work. Is NOT man's duty to finance you and your holiday trip! If you are interested in money, your relationship WILL NOT last.
Now, my advice to all the man and woman. Internet dating is NOT safe! And that is the fact!! There are lots of sick people out there and you need to be very careful. My opinion is that if you (after many times on skype) still want to meet, man should travel first to meet the woman. If that goes well, woman needs to make a second move (and pay for her own trip) and go to the man.. After that, you will know what you both want (hopefully) and if man is capable, he might finance your next trip (or reverse 😉 ). Everybody needs to be independent and don't expect free holiday! Be honest with each other and say what you want! But don't expect anything (especially heaven on earth)!
Good luck in your search..
Good question... Let me first explain how western men see this. As we all know, situation in eastern countries (i come originally from eastern country so i know) is not good so many woman (from 20-65) wants to leave and find someone outside their countries searching for better life (thinking that is a heaven in other countries). Now, their priority is better life (money) and then if the love comes its a bonus! So, many of them leave, find a man with money (driving mercedes which doesn't really mean rich), get married, and after they get papers (permanent residency or citizenship) they leave the poor guy. Now, i have seen this happening, especially when you see 20-30 year old with a guy who is over 45!
So, girls/woman, it is not heaven where we are. We work very hard to earn what we have and we are NOT looking for someone with money but for someone to enjoy life with. And especially men over 45. So if you find one, as every relationship requires that we should be equal in every way, YOU need to contribute to make it work. Is NOT man's duty to finance you and your holiday trip! If you are interested in money, your relationship WILL NOT last.
Now, my advice to all the man and woman. Internet dating is NOT safe! And that is the fact!! There are lots of sick people out there and you need to be very careful. My opinion is that if you (after many times on skype) still want to meet, man should travel first to meet the woman. If that goes well, woman needs to make a second move (and pay for her own trip) and go to the man.. After that, you will know what you both want (hopefully) and if man is capable, he might finance your next trip (or reverse 😉 ). Everybody needs to be independent and don't expect free holiday! Be honest with each other and say what you want! But don't expect anything (especially heaven on earth)!
Good luck in your search..