Dear Svetlana,
I appreciate that. You must understand what i am saying. I only support that woman pays for her self when she is going to visit man. Maybe she will be meeting more then one man without telling them? Now, i understand that the tickets are expensive and that is why i said so many times here that man should visit first if is serious. And after that, they can decide if she will go or not. If she has a problem with money, man can then decide if he wants to or not pay for her. The point here is that many woman (as you can see on the responses) think that is mans duty to pay for her trip regardless if she has the money or not!!! I strongly disagree with that and as you can see, many woman find it as not acceptable that they should bare the costs!
And anyway, if man agree, it is his choice and not some kind of a rule be cause "woman" says so! Its my opinion and if someone doesn't like it i don't really care! There are millions of woman who are not after money and can afford their own trip! Why would i worry about few who are more interested in money then in me..