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Dear Valentina,
Your writing is so good that i feel that i should offer you to come and visit me and i will pay for everything! But, if i am naive, i would probably do that but how do i believe that everything you say is the truth! What if after your visit (which i financed) you say, sorry i am not interested and you go back! Where am i then? Do you understand that my heart can be broken besides that i spent money?!?! You must stop seeing your self only as weak..we man do have feelings and get hurt too!
And as i said many times already, if man is willing to pay, it is his choice not be cause there is a rule - that was actually what was asked here.. There is nothing wrong in man paying and man not paying.. Its a principle we live by.
Now something else to explain to you. You have written explanation on what you looking for and its all great, BUT, NOT ONCE you said you are looking for LOVE!!! Everything you said, boils down to money. But where is love in all of that?!?!?!
Think very clear what i am saying and read your own letter..
Concerning the final equal part - If we decide that she comes to live with me, into the foreign country, i will make sure she finds a job and help to get legal papers to stay! And i will finance her all time..even after she starts earning money i will pay for everything.. But you cant talk about it yet..when on the first conversation woman wants to get paid trip and expect that from man! I am sorry, but life has thought me that if anything in life comes free, its never appreciated!! But if you invest into it, you know how to value it..
All this can be discussed many times but it comes to the one thing - THERE IS NO RULE for a man to pay for a woman to visit him. That is it.. That is all what i said.. But materialistic woman seem to be fighting that.. Good luck to them.. And good luck to you to find what you want..
Your writing is so good that i feel that i should offer you to come and visit me and i will pay for everything! But, if i am naive, i would probably do that but how do i believe that everything you say is the truth! What if after your visit (which i financed) you say, sorry i am not interested and you go back! Where am i then? Do you understand that my heart can be broken besides that i spent money?!?! You must stop seeing your self only as weak..we man do have feelings and get hurt too!
And as i said many times already, if man is willing to pay, it is his choice not be cause there is a rule - that was actually what was asked here.. There is nothing wrong in man paying and man not paying.. Its a principle we live by.
Now something else to explain to you. You have written explanation on what you looking for and its all great, BUT, NOT ONCE you said you are looking for LOVE!!! Everything you said, boils down to money. But where is love in all of that?!?!?!
Think very clear what i am saying and read your own letter..
Concerning the final equal part - If we decide that she comes to live with me, into the foreign country, i will make sure she finds a job and help to get legal papers to stay! And i will finance her all time..even after she starts earning money i will pay for everything.. But you cant talk about it yet..when on the first conversation woman wants to get paid trip and expect that from man! I am sorry, but life has thought me that if anything in life comes free, its never appreciated!! But if you invest into it, you know how to value it..
All this can be discussed many times but it comes to the one thing - THERE IS NO RULE for a man to pay for a woman to visit him. That is it.. That is all what i said.. But materialistic woman seem to be fighting that.. Good luck to them.. And good luck to you to find what you want..