Elena, being 37 as you say (if that is truth) and understanding advanced english, it is strange that you don't understand what i have written.. Or maybe you don't really understand english, or maybe you don't want to understand..  
I agree with you in one thing.. It is becoming boring as it seems that you and your kind have personal issues and without reading or understanding, start with assumptions (READ WHAT IS WRITTEN NOT BETWEEN THE LINES).. So, again..lets get back to basics - first read, then translate, then think and only then talk.. No use to explain again and again and again.. You can go around and around and still come back to the money.. Is not a rocket science to understand where i say money doesn't matter.. Its an effort what counts.. But again.. I guess nothing to accomplish here.. You will be the same as you always were.. Fortunately, there are woman who understand me and who are honest, intelligent and independent.. I am so glad for that.. No further comments are needed..