Dustin, stop to listen to yourself. You're complaining that women around you are too perverted, while at the same time you're engaging in behavior that women here describe as perverted, as well. The women here are telling you exactly why they find you objectionable, but you're saying "that's just who I am". There is no pride in being right here - you can either let your ego be coddled, or you can set it aside and have a chance at being loved. And again, you're generalizing 340 million people as being all the exact same, which is absolutely incorrect, and seriously calls into question your judgment and ability to evaluate character. There are good candidates at any age, and there are definitely many around you, but this opinion you hold tells a lot more about you than them, and it's not positive. I repeat- abandon these views and be willing to listen and learn. Arrogance and inflexibility like this are fatal.