Hello John! I am sorry to hear about lies in your relationship. Honestly if you are sure that she cheated you how can you continue seeing that woman and call her a wonderful woman? If the relationship started with lies it will be a part of it. Are you ready for it? The most important for you to find out if this person was in relationship with several men( at one and the same time) and visited them in their countries within 18 months...it's not LOVE definitely. The person is searching for the best place to live in this case. You should clarify if you both have the same values in life.Try to look at her actions towards you putting her in the certain situations .. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!! Good luck to you!