Every word I said, question I asked, made her angry. How does a man figure that one out I ask. Why is it so bad to ask over and over if we can do video chat once a week. A person who excepted your hand in marriage, says they love you? That is all I ever asked. I also sent money to the city she was delayed in because she said she had no money for food. I never had a problem paying for what I paid for, It was my choice. I ask where is the concern or appreciation on her part for our financial future?
Here is an example of what I question and get punished for. I was sent a photo last winter, in the back ground was daughter sitting with a man on sofa. At our meet, I asked who man was? I was told it is boy friend. O.K.
3 months later I ask her about my visit to her city, if possible to stay with her ( we are engaged to be married ). She says for her reputation she does not have men at her apartment. I bring out photo, send to her. I ask why is he there. Her immediate response " I have to go, I have a migraine" Three hours later she says it was her daughters ex husband and that was the last time they were together. Next I am scolded for accusations of mistrust and questioning her integrity over this. That she told me at the meet was not true because she did not know me well enough to talk about daughters personal life .