She is Aquarius. I have been like you say. But at my age I am aware of it and do my best to control it. I tell in beginning of relation, and this is the truth. I can deal with anything, I can handle any situation - if I know what is going on - you must communicate with me. Some times you must remove my doubt, sorry but this is truth and I tell it up front.
Here is an example - you tell me that today is one of the biggest holidays, you and your daughter are going to sing in a show, there is parade, whole country celebrates. You will not be able to talk until late that night or tomorrow. O.K., I am fine, no problem. I sit for entire next day, wait on communication, anticipating photos of this joyous occasion. On next communication, nothing about holiday? I ask, please send photos, I wish to enjoy your day at a distance. Answer - "My camera on phone does not work, only daughter took photos with camera". No talk about the day at all, nothing, no photos. She says it was not that big of deal.
Do I feel left out?, yes. Do I get curious? yes. Do ask and pressure for answers ? yes.
What do I get. Accused of mistrust, no chat for another day. No photos. I have never seen anything from the big day.
In my opinion, in a long distance relation, yes there must be trust. But this trust is also earned. I also thought when two people love each other they would want to share their life, all the time. If you were my woman and questioned something I did, or wanted an answer about something. I would go to the end of the earth to prove your doubt was wrong, photo, documents, letters. What ever you asked for and I will not be angry because I understand, different culture, communication, long distance, different age, country. Is it not 100% dedicated in all things, to build together and learn and earn trust as one?