Slow down cowboy! @Ben

There is nothing wrong with saying clearly what "I Want". After all, a lot of marriages fail because one or both of the partners fail to acknowledge what they want.

There are ways to provide for the family after your demise, being life insurance just an example.

There is no way to predict what would be my health at any specific point in life.

I also stated clearly what I am willing to give, so I tried to make it a balanced statement.