Hello Eric It is difficult to convey the whole set of beliefs and attitudes I hold, in a simple post in this forum. I, of course, am willing to listen to my partner and everyone else that comes into my life path. I believe is easy to judge someone and that is much harder to really understand. I strive then to understand. Interestingly enough I didn't consider that I was asking for too much as I myself was a big dreamer when I was younger and didn't stop being one. I consider myself to be a huge optimist and an idealist but I also work towards my dreams so they will not just be a fantasy. Thank you for your words