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Thanks for the recommendation. I have read a lot about this book and the author. Of course, she and her work deserve attention. And the fact that a man and a woman have differences in the perception of the world has long been known. Perhaps in the previous comment you meant difference of mind, not inequality. In the same work in which you recommended it to me, it is written that the brain of a man and a woman is completely identical in composition. But a woman's genetic code differs from a man's by less than 1%. And this percentage gives a difference in the perception of the world.
In general, I am amazed how some stratum of American society did not anathematize all her works, and the author herself. Indeed, for some time now women and men, boys and girls have been forbidden to distinguish.
Personally, I can argue with these generalizations.
//Why are women more talkative than men? Why are women more verbal than men? Why do women remember details of fights that men can't remember at all? Why do women tend to form deeper bonds with their girlfriends than men do with their male counterparts?//
Since childhood, one word had to be pulled out of me with tongs, and my husband has had stormy verbal flows all his life. I'm generally not interested in knowing what the other person has in his head or in his bag, and my husband is obscenely curious. One can find many more inconsistencies with such generalizations referring to women or men.
But in general, I agree that it is much more difficult for a woman to live and work due to her physiological characteristics. I even wrote here once, and many disagreed with me. Do you understand this after reading these books? Do you understand that it is much more difficult for a woman to earn money? And these are only physiological reasons. But there are also social reasons. There is also discrimination against women.
I'm glad you were a good family man and tried to make life easier for your wife. But evening feedings, lulling, and so on are not equivalent to what a woman does in relation to her children, her husband, and the household throughout her life. I don't think it can be compared. And even more so when there are several children. Like it or not, you were more focused on work, and the wife was on the children, on you, and on the household. Your hands and brain were devoted entirely to your work.
In general, I am amazed how some stratum of American society did not anathematize all her works, and the author herself. Indeed, for some time now women and men, boys and girls have been forbidden to distinguish.
Personally, I can argue with these generalizations.
//Why are women more talkative than men? Why are women more verbal than men? Why do women remember details of fights that men can't remember at all? Why do women tend to form deeper bonds with their girlfriends than men do with their male counterparts?//
Since childhood, one word had to be pulled out of me with tongs, and my husband has had stormy verbal flows all his life. I'm generally not interested in knowing what the other person has in his head or in his bag, and my husband is obscenely curious. One can find many more inconsistencies with such generalizations referring to women or men.
But in general, I agree that it is much more difficult for a woman to live and work due to her physiological characteristics. I even wrote here once, and many disagreed with me. Do you understand this after reading these books? Do you understand that it is much more difficult for a woman to earn money? And these are only physiological reasons. But there are also social reasons. There is also discrimination against women.
I'm glad you were a good family man and tried to make life easier for your wife. But evening feedings, lulling, and so on are not equivalent to what a woman does in relation to her children, her husband, and the household throughout her life. I don't think it can be compared. And even more so when there are several children. Like it or not, you were more focused on work, and the wife was on the children, on you, and on the household. Your hands and brain were devoted entirely to your work.