Jeff, are you saying, you have been on this site since 27 years old? Get a life, buddy - go travel, open a business, learn new things, have fun at the end of the day. Find a younger girl. As you can see, a mentality of a russian female partner - you need to be mature enough (and may be you are). Majority, as you can also see, looking for a partner who would provide them a comfortable life (do you want to take that responsibility now?). What's the motivation to look for an older women? Not going to work in a long run, in my view. Have fun, move on!