Why you decided that i'm not interested in man, Kal? Not ask about his interests, hobby, etc? but in 75% its look like interrogation in a secret department of the KGB.  )))))
i'm agent KGB, man - CIA agent & he trying not to betray military secrets  )) I'm write many topic - Man, answer please? Do you remember, Kal, haw many man answer, join to discussion?
Belive me by word, Kal, 75 % men most interested size of my bra, not my personality & soul   They all scarry that i'm scammer, i wont them money, bla-bla-bla... I'm ask - whats you hobby? He think - why she ask, for what? Began reflection..
One german guy have many photo his car BMW, with cool tunings, etc. It was clearly a fool, that he loves his car. I made a compliment - cool car. In answer he accused me of greed and mercenary interests ))Crazy 

Honestly, Kal, for last year only a week ago only one american guy talk with me about Murakami novels. He read this books, he read my profile. I received a sincere pleasure just from our online conversation. He was nice, polite, open, interesting conversationalist. Pleasant exception  )
As for another man. So i write about them (My experience of meeting in real life with foreign men) in closed topic, only for women. I do not want to offend normal men, like a american guy, whose read Murakami. But my observations are as follows - most men do not care about women inner beauty. they searching yanger, beauty, more foolish , profitable overhead expenses. In the end of end they have many problem in future.
But they choose this women themself.