No problem, Victor.
In my city men less. And they behave himself like a "princess". or like senior Tommaso.
Imagine for example Alatriste. Alatriste which is trading. "If i will do that & That, it will be achievement? my actions fall into the history books or not? if not, i stay at home & don't do anything"...  ))
So, Victor, if men don't want serious relationship. o'key. I searching it in another place. person can not be forced to be happy