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Спасибо Ольга


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Galina

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В моём случае только через агенство  


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Olga

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Кстати, очень красивый аватар, Галина.


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Galina

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может , и решались , если бы кто предлагал  


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Galina

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знакомой дали на 6 месяцев


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Olga

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Eric sorry for a lot of text but I think you need to know about other forms of violence against Indian women:

"Hundreds of thousands of unwanted baby girls are killed in India every year, either before their birth or shortly afterwards. Last year, research published in British medical journal The Lancet found that 10 million girls had been murdered during the past 20 years.
The result is a chillingly skewed male-female ratio".

"Different Forms of Domestic Violence in India and their Causes.

Domestic Violence Against Women.

This form of domestic violence is most common of all. One of the reasons for it being so prevalent is the orthodox and idiotic mindset of the society that women are physically and emotionally weaker than the males. Though women today have proved themselves in almost every field of life affirming that they are no less than men, the reports of violence against them are much larger in number than against men. The possible reasons are many and are diversified over the length and breadth of the country. According to United Nation Population Fund Report, around two-third of married Indian women are victims of domestic violence and as many as 70 per cent of married women in India between the age of 15 and 49 are victims of beating, rape or forced sex. In India, more than 55 percent of the women suffer from domestic violence, especially in the states of Bihar, U.P., M.P. and other northern states".

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The most common causes for women stalking and battering include dissatisfaction with the dowry and exploiting women for more of it, arguing with the partner, refusing to have sex with him, neglecting children, going out of home without telling the partner, not cooking properly or on time, indulging in extra marital affairs, not looking after in-laws etc. In some cases infertility in females also leads to their assault by the family members. The greed for dowry, desire for a male child and alcoholism of the spouse are major factors of domestic violence against women in rural areas. There have been gruesome reports of young bride being burnt alive or subjected to continuous harassment for not bringing home the amount of demanded dowry. Women in India also admit to hitting or beating because of their suspicion about the husband’s sexual involvement with other women. The Tandoor Murder Case of Naina Sahni in New Delhi in the year 1995 is one such dreadful incident of a woman being killed and then burnt in a Tandoor by his husband. This incidence was an outcome of suspicion of extra marital affairs of Naina Sahni which led to marital discord and domestic violence against her.



In urban areas there are many more factors which lead to differences in the beginning and later take the shape of domestic violence. These include – more income of a working woman than her partner, her absence in the house till late night, abusing and neglecting in-laws, being more forward socially etc. Working women are quite often subjected to assaults and coercion sex by employees of the organization. At times, it could be voluntary for a better pay and designation in the office.

Violence against young widows has also been on a rise in India. Most often they are cursed for their husband’s death and are deprived of proper food and clothing. They are not allowed or encouraged for remarriage in most of the homes, especially in rural areas. There have been cases of molestation and rape attempts of women by other family members in nuclear families or someone in the neighbourhood. At times, women are even sexually coerced by their partner themselves against their will. They are brutally beaten and tortured for not conceiving a male child. Incidents like, ripping off a woman’s womb for killing the female foetus when she disagrees for abortion have also come to light especially in rural areas. Female foeticide and female infanticide continue to be a rising concern.

Also as expressed by Rebecca J. Burns in the following lines, “When I am asked why a woman doesn’t leave abuser I say: Women stay because the fear of leaving is greater than the fear of staying. They will leave when the fear of staying is greater than the fear of leaving.” A common Indian house wife has a tendency to bear the harassment she is subjected to by her husband and the family. One reason could be to prevent the children from undergoing the hardships if she separates from the spouse. Also the traditional and orthodox mindset makes them bear the sufferings without any protest.

Other forms of physical abuse against women include slapping, punching, grabbing, burdening them with drudgery, public humiliation and the neglect of their health problems. Some of the other forms of psychological torment against them could be curtailment of their rights to self-expression and curbing the freedom to associate with the natal family and friends".

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Irina, 47 y.o.

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Согласна с Вами полностью, анкету заполнить элементарно, вот в Минске поймать сложновато дату в литовское посольство на вход, 5 дней потренировалась, и получилось, едем подаваться 11 декабря сами.. Посмотрим, на сколько дадут год или два года


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Natalia

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Всё время удивлялась, и продолжаю, как люди любят переплачивать в три дорого.
Как- будто, агентство делает что-то такое, чего не может сделать сам человек.
Вот, молодцы тур агентства, зарабатывают, как по мне, не хочу никого обидеть, на лохах, так сказать. Деньги зарабатывают из воздуха.  


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Nata

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По той же схеме, там ничего сложного ))

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Natalia, 54 y.o.

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Он был новичком на сайте и получил в первый день такое количество. Со мной завязалась переписка, так как я не спала в очень позднее время, а он был на работе в ночь. Из всех написавших получилось, что я одна «светилась на сайте» как он мне объяснил свой выбор. Он был готов к реальным отношениям, до этого его разводила одна россиянка на деньги в течение полугода. Тем не менее он не был до конца разочарован и продолжил поиски дальше на этом сайте. Ничего уже не могу спросить у него, три года скоро как он умер. Если интересно, почитайте мои посты здесь.

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Natalia, 54 y.o.

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В анкете где-то есть эта информация, насколько я помню. И правильно, многие сидят годами, не решаясь на встречи и тем более переезд в последствии. Сколько раз раньше поднималась эта тема.


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Olga

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Открывают под тур или многократную?


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Olga

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Unfortunately she is not the first victim and she is not the last...


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Galina

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виза во Францию

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Eric, 78 y.o.

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So sad to hear that this 23 yr old young Indian woman has passed away.

I hope that she can /will find peace ...


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Nata

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А какая страна? Германия? Что там делать? Анкету заполнить? И билеты значит на руках?

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Liudmila, 54 y.o.

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А визовый центр бы напартачил?  


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Galina

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я решила , что агенство сделает всё , как надо .

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Liudmila, 54 y.o.

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А почему не в визовый центр?


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Galina

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Galina

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я сдала документы в агенство .


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Galina

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Ну вот , и я дождалась  


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Olga

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А виза есть?

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Liudmila, 54 y.o.

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Галя, тебе уже написали выше - 5 лет "общения"... ну и кто виноват? Ясно же было, что и без "сисек" он не вариант.

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Tatyana, 49 y.o.

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Галь, а вы как-то упомянули, что у вас не просят такие фото. Ну вот с почином.   На всякий случай уточню, что коммент шутливый.

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Liudmila, 54 y.o.

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Freudscher Versprecher   .
Так оно и сеть и этим тоже забрасывают.


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Galina

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Ната , я поняла , почему не решалась ехать . С нормальным я готова встретиться .


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Galina

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Я поняла , почему я не решалась ехать . Вот общались . Он просил приехать к нему . И сейчас пригласил . И я решила поехать . Тем более Рождество . Посмотреть на красоту . А он мне выдал : "пришли мне твои сиськи " . 5 лет не было ничего подобного .И тут такая неожиданность . Не поеду


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Ekaterina

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you are perplexing in your thoughts, but we just want to understand what you want to get from this conversation in the end) as I understand you found a in your taste woman so ?))i am sure that generalize women's behavioral habits, the road to nowhere)
I have a lot of practice communicating with different people, and a bag of stories that can directly to prove that we are all different, not only geographically,but also at different stages of life.
and yes, I assure you, it’s full of Europeans and Americans, much more mercantile and also improved in order to ‘sell’ themselves. Like Russians girls who are only occupied with work and self-education. etc

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Tatyana, 49 y.o.

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Наталья, как бальзам на свежую рану по названием " мужчина и 200 - 300 писем ежедневно от женщин". Спасибо👍🤩 





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