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Roman, 48 y.o.

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Communication , The Big Issue ?

Hello, I want to share my experience and comments .
I've been here for 1 year (or more perhaps, I forgot) but I also have been absent some months .
I have received many positive replies and also many "empty" replies , I think it's normal .



In my case, the most important issue is the communication in a different language . Just a few girls speak fluently a different language besides the native one .
I feel this slow down the emotional transfer in the communication loop . I think I have lost good opportunities of knowing better a good woman .

After I have received the viber or whatsapp number and try to start a "relationship" I feel I'm talking to a robot or better said to a translator machine .
This become less interesting everyday (monotony, flat, soulless) for me and the opportunity for both is less positive .
I have visited Russia twice and I have never met there someone in person from this site .

We all are different, and may be I'm not good enough for such kind of "cyber communication" . May be I'm old fashioned because I prefer to talk face to face (physically) .
I'm learning russian language in order to express my feelings better and have better opportunities . I know it will take a long time (I do only speak Spanish and English fluently) .

Also I know that the success rate (get married) by this mean or in a similar one is not so high because of diverse motives (can be communication the most important issue?) .
For all of you that are reading this : How do you improve your cyber-communication? How do you achieve a good emotional stream? Is anybody here that is successful in a remote relationship that can share some tips? .
Best regards .
ROMAN C.

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