Where is everyone

Been on this site for 3 month now and i am so bored and no inspiration =( . I thought i would find a nice woman by now here =)  but i am not sure anymore. I wanna have deap talk with someone speciell, but so far, all i so shallow and after some of the standard question that 90 % i ask, they all later dissipear.  Now days i only write a few lines at most to a woman because no body answer long letters. Anyone having the same problem here? I remember when i was young and recieved many long love letters from girls, maybe is a new generation now that dont like communication like that. =( Anyone having some idees, what i caned do different?