Are we our Physical Attributes ? Who is really beautiful ?
Dear all,
I had been here on and off, mostly every six months, I find someone to talk to and find out how compatible we are. Unfortunately, for the crazy person I am, I couldn't find anyone with ample depth and drive in their character. So I thought that I will share a piece of mind, to all the beautiful people (men and women) who are more proud of their physical beauty and is not careful about their inner beauty.
I believe in GOD, not a special GOD of a particular religion, but I know that there is ONE GOD. This human form of life, is indeed a gift from HIM and we have to accept the fact that we will look the way we are. But this human body, has to be maintained without fail, keeping it strong and fit, so that we can enjoy the various life experiences. After all, we are all destined to have certain experiences in this life, in line with our previous karmas. Now when the experiences manifest in front of us, it is like a stimuli - which requires us to respond. And we respond in three ways - Our Body language (including facial expressions), our words and physical action. This response of us, to various situations that we experience in daily life will ultimately define who we are. It will automatically show to others who we are. What is there in our inner self.
You see, when we squeeze a lemon, we get lemon juice
when we squeeze an orange, we get orange juice.
So the bottom line is, what is inside, is what comes out of anything. that it applies to all of us also.
When life and situations squeeze us (with various worldly tough grinding ) , what is inside us will also come out. Now the question is what we have cultivated within us. What will come out ?
Is it going to be compassion, empathy, love, calmness, Altruism, etc OR Is it going to be Hatred, abuse, threats, frustrations, selfishness, greed, etc
In this place here, where we search for a soul mate, I feel that its worth spending time and taking time to understand and may be squeeze each other to find out what comes out of the other person before we decide and walk down the aisle again.
Now to find out about each other, I feel that we have to take the risk of opening up about us to strangers. Sometimes, we ourselves don't understand why we are doing certain things, so if we are to hide, what is the use, the other person might have misjudgment and will be disappointed with us. It will happen without fail as it is just a matter of time.
Because you know what is the most important pass time of GOD ? To bring out our propensities, how much ever we tried to hide. We have to change ourselves within us, if we don't have to be ashamed of caught with a bad character and propensity. When hear good stories, we automatically see, how a beautiful person who is the central character of that good story.
I end my point of view with this quote from the scriptures I love. It is about how GOD exposes our true self (Remember, The supersoul God, is always within us )
"Just like the sun, though hidden by clouds, will illuminate the cloud and all visible forms, so HE (God who is inside each one of us) , though hidden by our materials qualities ( deception of various forms some of us adopt to make us look pleasing and good ), will reveal all those qualities ( what is actually inside us ) along with the living entities ( us ) who possess them "
So are we all going to strive to look inside and cultivate something that is pleasant for everyone, whenever it flows out of us ?
Thank you.
Dear all,
I had been here on and off, mostly every six months, I find someone to talk to and find out how compatible we are. Unfortunately, for the crazy person I am, I couldn't find anyone with ample depth and drive in their character. So I thought that I will share a piece of mind, to all the beautiful people (men and women) who are more proud of their physical beauty and is not careful about their inner beauty.
I believe in GOD, not a special GOD of a particular religion, but I know that there is ONE GOD. This human form of life, is indeed a gift from HIM and we have to accept the fact that we will look the way we are. But this human body, has to be maintained without fail, keeping it strong and fit, so that we can enjoy the various life experiences.
After all, we are all destined to have certain experiences in this life, in line with our previous karmas. Now when the experiences manifest in front of us, it is like a stimuli - which requires us to respond. And we respond in three ways - Our Body language (including facial expressions), our words and physical action. This response of us, to various situations that we experience in daily life will ultimately define who we are. It will automatically show to others who we are. What is there in our inner self.
You see,
when we squeeze a lemon, we get lemon juice
when we squeeze an orange, we get orange juice.
So the bottom line is, what is inside, is what comes out of anything. that it applies to all of us also.
When life and situations squeeze us (with various worldly tough grinding ) , what is inside us will also come out. Now the question is what we have cultivated within us. What will come out ?
Is it going to be compassion, empathy, love, calmness, Altruism, etc
OR
Is it going to be Hatred, abuse, threats, frustrations, selfishness, greed, etc
In this place here, where we search for a soul mate, I feel that its worth spending time and taking time to understand and may be squeeze each other to find out what comes out of the other person before we decide and walk down the aisle again.
Now to find out about each other, I feel that we have to take the risk of opening up about us to strangers. Sometimes, we ourselves don't understand why we are doing certain things, so if we are to hide, what is the use, the other person might have misjudgment and will be disappointed with us. It will happen without fail as it is just a matter of time.
Because you know what is the most important pass time of GOD ? To bring out our propensities, how much ever we tried to hide. We have to change ourselves within us, if we don't have to be ashamed of caught with a bad character and propensity. When hear good stories, we automatically see, how a beautiful person who is the central character of that good story.
I end my point of view with this quote from the scriptures I love. It is about how GOD exposes our true self (Remember, The supersoul God, is always within us )
"Just like the sun, though hidden by clouds, will illuminate the cloud and all visible forms,
so HE (God who is inside each one of us) , though hidden by our materials qualities ( deception of various forms some of us adopt to make us look pleasing and good ), will reveal all those qualities ( what is actually inside us ) along with the living entities ( us ) who possess them "
So are we all going to strive to look inside and cultivate something that is pleasant for everyone, whenever it flows out of us ?
Thank you.
