What do you really want...???

Im Roberto from Mexico, Im 34 years old almost 35 in july will be my birthday. Fortunately or Unfortunately I looks younger that I am... I said unfortunately... because when I had meet a woman between 27 or 34 They dont believe me that I am 34 and sometimes I have to show my ID for she believe me that I born in 1982..... :/ when I met a woman between 18 and 26 they had told me that I am so old for them.... or they are not mature for have a good and interesting conversation. I wrote Fortunately because I have good health I looks better than other men that they are younger than me and they looks older than me like 40... when they are only 30 or 29 years old.... but I know that this doesnt matter.... every person is different... My point is.... I had met women by person and by this site... that first they felt physical atraction about me but when I started to ask about what are they plans about what they really want about their lifes... almost nobody could answered me... and when I start to speak about my goals and what I really want someone they call me that I am a dreamer.... and is not possible... When I say that I am really looking for a serious relationship because I would like to get marry and have kinds before I am 40 they are afraid about the distance... and they ask to me Why I had not met a woman in my city... Why I am looking for a woman in this site??? and I answered because in the town where I live the population here is old and almost all the local women here they are not phisicly atractives for me... or I had not find a woman that she is atractive for me and she knows what she really wants.... In my experience I know that everything that you want is possible if you really want it... When I decided to move from Mexico city because that big city is a madness living there and I decided to move to Cancun and start a new life.. I did it... now I live in other paradise in Mexico call it "Los Cabos" waiting and been patient to find a good woman, honest that she wants to have a family with me... and of course I know that will not be easy... distance is not a problem, money is not a problem, the unique problem is to know what you really want and why... and know that I have to be patient for get it....