health of your future mate, tell the truth, human health is basic info

Invested time, alot of time and heart into one special woman, or so I thought. All expenses paid of course, 2 trips to Russia, only to get a letter when I got home asking for forgiveness for a very important health secret! Changed forever is an understatement. Is it too much to ask that the site check the health or at least ask the questions about a woman or a man's health. In my case, the question, "Are You Safe" clearly was understood and clearly I was lied to. WOW, lookout people, men and women alike. In the end I learned a lesson...that there are good and bad ones on all sites, But honestly after 2 visits?????? NOW, do I have the embassy deal with this, because I get no response when I ask for the basic details, no response at all..I understand the past is the past, and we all put on our best face, but your health is the one thing that must be real and honest and truthful the first time. GooD Luck!