This must be something that is coached or taught somewhere! I too have encountered the ridiculous notion that a man with some money to spare would pay literally thousands of $$$ just to travel and have sex with a woman from another country. Because we are here looking for something not found in our own countries YES, some women assume that we men just cannot find someone at home. It is simply not true. The values that make up our future partners lives are what I find attractive. Things like 1. Is she a good mother or family member? 2. Does she give something back to her own society, after all, she will be expected to be a productive member of a new society if she is actually married to one of us? 3. Is she compassionate and loyal? 4. Education 5. Beauty........notice the order of things and beauty near the bottom. Contrary to popular belief the comments like I have read in the past such as "he is looking for a nurse" or "he just wants a trophy wife" or "he is only after sex because he has some sexual deviance"......all completely not true but these statements help us fill in the blanks left in a woman's profile. All of those stereotypes are typical, easy to reach for answers...like with my ex wife and my son. She assumes that I spoil him with gifts and sweets to gain his favor.....like it is not possible that my son actually enjoys his time with me because I take him to work with me or coach his football team, or I take time to play his favorite video game, or I just stop in at school and surprise him and take him to lunch early. The easy to reach for answers are the most lame yet in my country at least, they are the first ones brought up.
This must be something that is coached or taught somewhere! I too have encountered the ridiculous notion that a man with some money to spare would pay literally thousands of $$$ just to travel and have sex with a woman from another country. Because we are here looking for something not found in our own countries YES, some women assume that we men just cannot find someone at home. It is simply not true. The values that make up our future partners lives are what I find attractive. Things like 1. Is she a good mother or family member? 2. Does she give something back to her own society, after all, she will be expected to be a productive member of a new society if she is actually married to one of us? 3. Is she compassionate and loyal? 4. Education 5. Beauty........notice the order of things and beauty near the bottom. Contrary to popular belief the comments like I have read in the past such as "he is looking for a nurse" or "he just wants a trophy wife" or "he is only after sex because he has some sexual deviance"......all completely not true but these statements help us fill in the blanks left in a woman's profile. All of those stereotypes are typical, easy to reach for answers...like with my ex wife and my son. She assumes that I spoil him with gifts and sweets to gain his favor.....like it is not possible that my son actually enjoys his time with me because I take him to work with me or coach his football team, or I take time to play his favorite video game, or I just stop in at school and surprise him and take him to lunch early. The easy to reach for answers are the most lame yet in my country at least, they are the first ones brought up.
