Are you marrying for love?

Ladies, a man told me today that if western men from wealthy countries want to find real love, then they should meet and date women from their own country. He told me that dating and marrying a woman from Russia or Ukraine is not real love. You love the fact that western men are financially better off and can give you a better lifestyle. I know this happens in all cultures, but most people marry for love and not financially gain. I believe Russian and Ukrainian women are no different. All woman have the same basic human desire to feel in love no matter where they are born. What would your reply to him be? I would like to hear how important it is to feel love for your future husband too Thank you