Scam or not. How to communicate?

There is some topics on the scam world and how people perceive and manage it. I personnaly know the how to. But I then realized that my efficiency and effictiveness in that scope may be too much conservative..there can be so much differents scams. !!!.. i'm too much filtrating since i'm use to western sites and scams. For instance, and this topic is only and at all for this : how do you do when " a women ask you explicitely to be more verbose at the very first mail exchange : " why so short messages" keeps saying some of my contacts, and they says it at the second message.!! Some of my contacts are expecting some nabukovian or balzacian profficiant love message. I'm unable to. So internet Darwinian survival result: such too much requiring contacts simply disappears. How do u do? What do u thinks of?