Meeting

Hypothetical questions about meeting face to face. Hello Ladies, Imagine you have been talking/videoing with a gentleman for some time, you both like each other and you both agree to meet. The gentleman comes to your city and stays in a hotel or rents an apartment. What are your views and opinions on the following; 1) How long would you like him to visit for, a few days, a week, longer? 2) If he is staying for 1 week, how often would you want to see him? 3) Would you take time off work to see him? 4) Would you want him to be in a hotel/apartment near you or further away? 5) would you like him to meet your friends and or family? Your views would be welcome.