What do men want???

I’ve got hundreds of letters from different men all over the world. All of them admire my appearance and my personality. The day they want to be with me and not going to search anymore  but when it comes to the question how and when can we see each other, they disappear or invite me to their country or pretend like they didn’t notice the question  I’m an open minded, self confident and truthful woman, I’m looking for the man who stand after his word. But unfortunately most men here on this site are not like that. I would be so impressed if someone could change my mind!