Visiting

I am sure most people would like to meet in their own country,, feeling safer and at ease that they know the area. I am currently writing to a nice woman here. I would like her to visit me, so she can see if how I live suites her, and is what she is looking for. I would be happy to visit her.. How long should I keep writing? Should I plan the long journey or wait for a while. The question i don't know is she writing to many men! at the same time. I have had lots of messages but I do not want to write others, as this would give a false impression of me. We would all like to find the person that we can share our lives with. I plan on staying for a little while.