Any gentleman alive?

Dearest users, Can't stand that battle inside my head anymore, so sharing the mind with all of you. I know, that the term "gentleman" is quite abstract, besides there's no need in riding horses on the roads and carrying swords on the streets anymore, but still I'm sure the term "gentleman" still has that hidden sense we all know and understand. I can't say I'm all "experienceless", neither can say I've seen a lot. In our twenties life seems to be in it's middle, yet there's quite a lot still hidden in the future. Right? However, in my twenties I seem to be disappointed in men. They say I'm smart and beautiful, but some of them don't even open the door for me. We, women are not 'disabled', but we do have some special needs (let me call it so). Is it that hard to show some attention to the lady which is charming for you? I don't wanna think I'm that "unlucky" with men but neither I wanna think there's a sad tendency of disappearance all of real men, real gentlemen. Thanks for your attention to this soulscream. Would be quite pleasantly to read your thoughts on this topic. Lina x